Having Fun Getting Healthy!!!!

I was reading an article on WebMD on why couples should be having sex. UH-Oh if that S-E-X word offends you then you should not be reading this blog post. Now back to the regularly scheduled conversation, because I have no problem talking about S-E-X.

Anyways, I found this article very interesting.  Most of the stuff knew, but there were a few things that I didn’t. But what I gathered it was all the more reason, to not let your marriage lack sex.

Sex may not be the only part of a marriage, but it plays a major role, like it or not.  However, I don’t expect everyone to agree with that statement. But truth be told, sex in a marriage is more than an orgasm.  It is a connection, where husband and wife is becoming one in body, mind, and soul. Besides all of the physical health benefits you should have read about if you clicked on the link, but it provide benefits to your marriage. I am not about to go into every single detail of the benefits to your marriage, but you just think about. I am going to do a repost of a previous blog post as well discussing other health benefits that I found and it had a little more take of what I thought.

I basically just wanted to share this, because I liked the physical health benefits from the article and I thought someone else would enjoy the read as well. Please click the link below to find out more.


Is It Boring or Not? ~ Marriage Is What You Make of It!

Is It Boring or Not? ~ Marriage Is What You Make of It!

I had someone say to me the other day that they would never get married. They said the reason why was that they would be bored, being with the same person day in and day out. Now first let me say I did not interject because I feel as if people are entitled to their own opinion. However, I will say right here and now that I didn’t agree, because guess what? I am entitled to my opinion as well. I have no problem being with the same man for the last 15 years. It has been an interesting journey, and just because you are married that doesn’t mean you still can’t enjoy a few minutes away from each other. My husband goes and hangs with his friends to play golf, race RC cars, and other hobbies they like to do. I like going shopping, getting my feet did, and actually I enjoy going to school. Those things we do apart and we have things we do together. You don’t have to be with each other every second of the day. You just have to remember to make time for each other, as well as yourself, and you won’t get bored. I think when me and my husband spend time away from each other, it makes when we come back together even more special. Marriage is what you make of it if you don’t do anything to make it interesting, of course, you’re going to get bored. However, if you love someone and want to make it exciting and fun you can as well. You just have to work at it.

“The Trip” ~written to me by my husband Vaughn Cleary

“The Trip” ~written to me by my husband Vaughn Cleary

I woke up this morning to find this beautiful poem written by my husband to  me and posted on facebook. It is the little things that he do that means so much  to me. I appreciate everything he does and I thank God for having him in my  life. The picture is one of the sevetal gifts I have recieved in the last few  days. I am posting this picture, because it is the one he had posted with the  poem.

“The  Trip”

When  we first started this trip.

 I was kinda reluctant to go.

 Never really had  any roots.

 I just went where the wind decided to blow.

 Then you said come  go with me. … Lets take a little ride.

 Don’t know Exactly where  we’ll go.

 But we’ll know when we arrive.

The road was really rough at  first.

Didnt think the  car would last.

 We rode for many miles  sometimes

On a empty take of  gas.

Some days we race against the  world.

 And on others we let it cruise  by.

  I no longer care about where we’re  going.

As long as we enjoy our little  ride.

  Happy Valentines Day baby